The 11th of November 2023 is Remembrance Day (Armistice Day) commemorated every year on the 11th of November. Remembrance honours those who serve to defend our democratic freedoms and way of life. We unite across faiths, cultures and backgrounds to remember the service and sacrifice of the Armed Forces Community from Britain and the Commonwealth.

During the Poppy Appeal and all year round, there is support for members of the Royal Navy, British Army, Royal Air Force, veterans and their families. By making a donation, you could help those in need within our Armed Forces community.

Let us not forget the emotional support needed by those that have lost their loved ones in the Royal British Army. Here are a few tips for those caring for the vulnerable elderly:-

Things that can be helpful:-

  1. Share a memory – If you knew the person who died, you could also share a memory or say what they meant to you.
  1. Offer them space to talk – Many bereaved people say it helps to be able to speak freely about how they’re feeling. Saying “How are you doing?” gives them a chance to talk about it if they want to. If you know the person quite well, you could ask them directly, “Would you like to talk about it?”. Let them know you’re happy to listen to any feelings they want to share.
  1. Tell them however they feel is OK
  2. Although this isn’t possible, acknowledging it by saying, “I’m sorry I can’t make things better”, “I’m sorry it’s so hard for you”, or “I’m sorry things are so tough right now” can help them feel heard and supported.
  3. Ask if there is anything they need – You may want to help but not know how. Ask the bereaved person if there is anything they need, and let them know you’re ready to support them. If they seem unsure, you could suggest specific things, such as cooking them a meal or doing their shopping.
  1. Tell them you’re thinking of them. – Discover ways below to contribute to this year’s Poppy Appeal. Your donations provide vital support to serving and ex-serving personnel and their families, offering expert guidance and assistance with recovery and civilian life transitions all year round.

https://www.britishlegion.org.uk/get-involved/poppy-appeal